Tuesday, October 15, 2013

How German Zumba Showed Me I Am Not Living My Best Life



“Don’t just live life, show it who is boss!”

That’s what I read on the t-shirt of the German Zumba dancer tonight.

I like that quote particularly because as I was sitting there watching the Zumba class shake, shake, shake to the Latin fusion beats, I began to realize that I have become complacent in my daily life. I can sit in front of a computer and read articles, write blog posts, strategize, research, and do a whole host of other things all day long without hardly walking away from the screen.


Is this living life?

Well, let me tell you a little story before you answer that question. A few days ago, one of our friends from the US came to visit. We went out to a Tex-Mex restaurant (yes, a Tex-Mex restaurant in Germany!). Our waiter was a very nice girl and I started chatting with her (like I sometimes do when waiters are nice!). It turns out that her father is American and she was born in Texas but has spent most of her life here in Germany. We struck up a great, little convo. Towards the end of our meal, our visiting friend asked where can we go to dance salsa in Kassel (the Tex-Mex restaurant was playing some salsa songs…umm, yeah, I know). Anyway, she told us about a place that has a salsa night every Thursday. She also told us that she’s on an award-winning hip-hop dance team in Germany and invited me to her practice.

Tonight, I watched my new-found-waitress-friend Angela do her thing in her dance class. After her class was over, I stayed around to watch the Zumba class start. It was high-powered Zumba fun….dictated in German. I thought to myself, “Wow, this is the first time that I feel am participating in German society without the comfort of my family/friends nearby and it feels great! Why haven’t I been getting out and doing more things like this already?”

I realized that I had not really been living life to its full potential.

I love dancing. I love meeting people.  Why did it take someone else asking about dancing in the city I live in for me to realize I could be dancing my little Mississippi toes off right here in Kassel, Germany every Tuesday night?

Complacency is the answer, I believe.

Sometimes, we get comfortable and we forget why we love living and what we are living for. For me, I like exploring the world, other cultures, and languages but I also enjoy dancing, hiking, dining, and more. My friend who is visiting is only in Germany for a little while but he’s got that tourist energy. He is getting out there and seeing the most of the city that he can in his 7 days here. That’s fantastic! Before he arrived, I more or less felt as if I’d already seen everything there is in Kassel during my first few weeks here but of course, there’s so much more to do, even if it’s Zumba!

Tonight’s message is clear to me, “Get up, get out, and really live life!”

What about you? How does the life you’re living compare to the life you want to live? Sometimes, we just need a little reminder to get out and do it!

Get your tourist energy going wherever you are. GO! GET IT! NOW!…LIFE ISN’T WAITING!

ACTION:
Here’s how you can put this into action. We all have things that we have been meaning to do. But sometimes, we get caught up with life (or what we think is life).

  1. Think about something you like love doing that you are not doing. Whatever it is: hiking, reading, knitting, yoga, talking to your mom, movie night, dancing, working out, etc.  Tip: It doesn’t have to cost anything.
  1. Put it on your calendar. Find a way to make it happen.
  1. Make the commitment to yourself to just do it. You deserve it! It’s your life.

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